So this happened on facebook today….
so I never knew that about the tight thing and that makes SO MUCH SENSE because sex with dudes has always hurt because it’s so tight and it’s always uncomfortable and painful no matter WHAT we do because I’m really never aroused and I just.. ugh. it’s never good for me.
and of course I’ve since then realized I just really do not enjoy sex with dudes and I don’t get aroused by it I only get aroused by sex with women
I SHOULD’VE KNOWN HOW GAY I WAS WAY EARLIER
goddamn the more you know kids
Guys be like I KNOW HOW FEMALE BIOLOGY WORK.
that reminds me of a phenomenon I saw in the internet.
apparently a part of the modern Chinese guys judge a girl’s chastity by the colors of women’s private part.darker color means she fucked a lot, lighter or pink means she’s cleaner.
Ancient Chinese believed that only virgins bleed on their first time(which is not truth). The white piece of cloth stained with blood are considered the evidence of virginity. If there’s nothing on it, the woman will be executed for her sin.
Exactly, it’s that stupid male driven thought that I was always taught, that I would bleed and it would hurt my first time. So my entire motivation behind loosing my virginity was to just ‘get it over with’ But luckily my first time my partner took the time to make sure I was comfortable and when it didn’t hurt and I didn’t bleed I was like ‘oh I need to learn more’
But what if you are sexually aroused, and you do/are enjoy it, but you’re still ‘tight’? Then what does that mean?
To answer the last question… Every vaginal cavity is a different size and so is every penis (heck penises can literally change size every erection). It is possible to have a more narrow vaginal cavity, be turned on, and lubricated and it still to be “tight”/slightly uncomfortable; no matter how turned on you are. That’s why during vaginal exams there are different sized “forceps”. Despite the original indication 1 size fits all is not true of vaginas. Also vaginal cavities can “loosen” up but not enough a male would be able to tell, and they will shrink back to original size; even after childbirth. I think that takes around 6 weeks.
^^ thank you!!!